Saturday, July 20, 2013

How to ASK for help and RECEIVE it


Dear Trina, 

You said something in our call I need to imbed, having to do with asking for what I need or help. I want to remember it how you said it. It was referring to my readiness to move forward and receive what I need from angels, etc. I'm learning how to ask for the help I need, what I can expect, and what you said hit me. Now I'm just trying to recall it. Obviously I haven't asked enough or recognized I could, in the past.   

- B from Salt Lake City, UT


Dear B, 

Asking for help is the easiest action we can take in life, yet it seems to be the last thing we often think of.  Why is that?   I feel it is because in our ‘humanness’, we’ve created  fear, and the idea that we are separate from God/Source/Creator. And in that illusion, we think we have to deserve help, or feel guilty for receiving it.  We judge what we need as not important or selfish, or sadly, we feel like there is no connection at all to a Source who would provide for us and all of our needs. 

The Truth is, you are and have never been separate from the Source which created you and the divine blueprint which is your life.  And from that same Source, ALL infinite blessings, potential, guidance and possibilities flow and are accessible.  

Our ONLY responsibility is to give ourselves permission to ASK and RECEIVE that help. 

We were born with free will, which means we can choose to live out situations however we want.  We can choose fear, or we can choose love at every moment. This is why Spirit can not intervene unless we ask for help!  

Asking is as simple as having a conversation.    

“Dear God/Guides/Angels/Universal Source...I NEED and RECEIVE YOUR HELP NOW! Thank you for providing me all my needs, in the perfect timing.  Thank you for guiding and surrounding me with the perfect people.  Thank you for providing me all the resources I desire and need.  I’m so grateful I’m in perfect flow with my life and all that I love and that I am being prepared for the life I chose and am meant to live.” 

You can also ask for specific needs, big and small.  However, many times we limit our needs, or we don’t even know what we need for sure, we just know something needs to change.  And that change is always in us, in our perspective.  

We often pray for our circumstances to change, however, 
the change that needs to occur is in us, so we can see it differently.  
Everything in life is happening FOR you, not TO you.  

This is why we want to SURRENDER and let go of OUR will,  OUR timing, OUR limitations of what we think we need, and how we need them to happen.   We often imagine our lives so much smaller than what is actually possible for us.  We also tend to want to avoid pain or grieving, where it is NECESSARY for our growth, and those involved.   Everyone came here to play a role, and no matter how much we want their role to change, it’s a soul agreement that has already been written.   In the end, there is one thing we can trust and know for sure:  


“We never ask for help for our highest good, that is not supplied in our highest good.”

One of my favorite quotes from A Course in Miracles states,  
“You can have a grievance or you can have a miracle, but you can’t have both.”  

What I believe this is saying is, “Once you ask for help, let God help.”  

We must TRUST that everything is working out just as it should.  If you don’t get the money, it’s possible you didn’t need the money. If you don’t get the job, it’s possible that job wasn’t the best job for you at this time.  Where there is not LOVE (in any form), it’s a cry for LOVE.   So practice being without the money, and LOVE your life anyway.   If you don’t get the job, LOVE yourself and your abilities anyways.  If your relationship isn’t working out, give LOVE to the relationship with yourself even more.  

When we are in the energy of LOVE, we are available to seeing and receiving more LOVE. 

Spirit isn’t going to harm and confuse you by giving you false substitutes of LOVE,
 and let you believe there is power and security in things outside of you.  

All that you want and desire is WITHIN YOU.  
The power to step into your greatest life is WITHIN YOU. 
All that is in the outer world only reflects YOU and the relationship you have with God/Your TRUE SELF.  

So I encourage you to reconnect to that infinite source within you today, and just simply start the conversation.  
When all your needs get met, please remember you did not just get ‘lucky’.  
You simply realigned yourself with what has been yours all along.    

EXPECT A MIRACLE!!!

Blessings,
Trina Harmon


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